They once called him "Cat" because he was a sprinter of Olympic standard.
But like the cat of the proverb, his limit was nine.
My husband died yesterday morning.
And I must leave you again for a time.
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
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I am so sorry.
Oh, Bernita. There are no words. Please know you're in our thoughts.
<3
I'm sorry for your loss.
Oh, god, Bernita. I can't imagine. Oh, no. Awww, that's just awful.
I'm sending you the biggest hugs in the world.
Tears in my eyes. I'm very sorry.
So sorry, Bernita. Words are inadequate, but know that you are loved.
I am very sorry.
Oh, man, I'm so sorry! :(
{{{}}}
Angie
I'm so sorry.
I am terribly, terribly sad to hear this. You are in my prayers and thoughts.
I am so sorry. Will be thinking of you and praying for you and yours.
I am so very sorry. You're in my thoughts.
Aw! My heart goes out to you and your lovely children.
Bernita... Words are so small compared to your pain. Know that I am with you, with all my heart.
May he fare well in that undiscovered country where we will all one day reunite.
Bernita-I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry, Bernita. I hope he was at peace. He certainly fought a good fight...
No, there are no words.
The presence of all of us are with you.
Oh Bernita, I am so sorry.
We're thinking of you. I am so sorry, Bernita.
For those who claim to be writers, words often seem so inadequate.
I'm so very sorry, Bernita. And if having people who care brings comfort, please know that you do.
{{{Love}}}.
I am so very, very sorry Bernita.
You are in my prayers--much love!
I am so sorry. Thoughts are with you.
Oh, sweetheart, I am so sorry. So much hope.
I'm going to paraphrase the words the priest said during my nephew's service last fall.
"Be cautious around those who tell you they know why he died. Seek out those who tell you why he lived."
Hugs to you, my dear.
The words are again meaningless. I'm happy he made it home once more.
I'm so sorry! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
The fact that he was able to see his home again must have been a great comfort to him. My heart goes out to you for the period ahead of you and for the anguish of the past months of fear.
Oh, Bernita...I'm so sorry. You are in my thoughts. Please let me know if there's anything I can do for you.
Aw, I'm so sorry to hear this, Bernita.
Bernita, I am so very sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.
Ellen
The words "I'm sorry" don't seem adequate, but please know that you're in our thoughts and our hearts. God keep.
Bernita, my heart goes out to you. I'm so, so, sorry. Sending prayers your way.
Oh my. My heart goes out to you and yours. I'm glad of one thing out of this tragedy, and that's that he got to come home for a time. I am so sorry for your loss, Bernita. Take care of yourself.
Bernita, you're in my prayers, lady.
I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.
I'm very sorry to hear your news, Bernita.
Very sorry to hear of your loss.
I'm sorry for your loss. Sending hugs your way.
Bernita,
Sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences.
(((((((Bernita))))) I'm so sorry for your loss!
Oh, Bernita, my condolences.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
My deepest condolences.
so sorry for the loss of your beloved, m'dear bernita :'(
sorry, just realized... he died on the first anniversary of my dad's death :(
february IS the cruelest month....
Oh no. I'm so sorry.
Paul
Oh Bernita. My prayers are with you.
Bernita--
I am so, so sorry to hear this, and sorry I didn't check it sooner.
I'm thinking of you and your children.
People may leave us but love lives forever.
Hugs
Oh, Bernita, I'm so, so sorry. I will keep you in my prayers.
Of course there's nothing to say but that I ache for you.
I so sorry to hear it.
I am so sorry.
Oh, I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.
You'd think a writer should find words to express her feelings, but I have none except, I'm so sorry.
Bernita,
You and your family are in my prayers.
Missie
I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you.
My heart goes out to you Bernita.
Bernita, I'm so sorry. Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss.
Oh Bernita ~
There is so much I want to say, but I can't see to type through the tears.
You and you family are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
I am so sorry.
As late as this comes, please accept our condolences. As Jaye said, there are no words.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I clicked your link through another blog and knew I had to stop by to give you my condolences.
I lost my husband to a virus in his heart after we fought the good fight for 9 months. In just a few short days it will be one year since he went home at the tender age of 50.
If you want to email me, feel free. lisar265 AT comcast.net
Bernita, my deepest condolences in your loss.
I'm sorry to hear of your loss.
Take care.
oh i'm so sorry, b. my heart breaks for you. *hugs* you and your loved ones are in my thoughts.
We're still here, Bernita, whenever you're ready.
Be well.
I'm so sorry, Bernita.
Oh, sweet mercy Bernita. I grieve for your loss, and wish you all the comfort you need.
Thoughts and prayers Bernita. God bless.
Thinking of you.
Just stopping by to say hello and I'm thinking of you, Bernita. {hugs}}
Cyberhugs, Bernita. Been thinking of you.
writtenwyrdd
I'm sorry Bernita.
My wife died a few months ago. Although our pain differs, I'm sure there's a sameness as well. Death has a way of forcing us to look deeply into the mirror.
I'm sure your husband is lending you what strength he can. Take it. And carry on. It's what we do. :)
Still thinking of you and sending love your way.
Thinking about you, Bernita, and wondering how you're doing. Thoughts of cheer sent your way.
Dear Bernita:
I hope not to add to your sorry with this note. I just now checked my Google Reader from pretty much the beginning of the year. So I didn't know until now about your terrible loss.
I'm so so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
--Precie
You have my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy, Bernita.
Frank, I'm so sorry, I didn't know.
Bernita, I can't believe it's been only a month -- it seems like forever since we last heard from you.
I hope you're doing well, writing, enjoying your granddaughter.
I know what loss feels like, and I wish you comfort.
Oh God...I'm so sorry.
Dear Bernita
Grossly late, but so sorry for your loss. Not sure what to hope for you other than peace and solace.
McK
He fought the good fight. Both your and his strength and courage are a lesson for us all.
I'm so sorry, Bernita. Rest, hon. It's time to take care of yourself now.
Thinking of you.
Oh my. I'm at a loss for words, Bernita... I'm so sorry.
happy spring to you and yours, my dear friend....
Thinking of you. I know it's a tough time you're going through.
Ijust stopped by to let you now I am thinking of you.
Kate
hi bernita. just wanted to let you know i was thinking of you.
Hope you're OK.
Bernita, love, we miss you.
Echoing others, Bernita.
Your second family here misses you very much, dearheart.
It's been said often, but it's worth repeating: Thinking of you, missing you, hoping you return soon.
I recently 'talked' to your daughter, Bernita, and I'm relieved to know that you're okay, as much as you can be in this difficult time.
I can't believe it's only been a couple of months -- it seems like forever.
Just stopping in to say I miss you, Bernita, and I hope you're okay. I'm moving next week and won't be around much, but I'd love to hear from you anytime.
I'm thinking of you, Bernita, and sending you my warmest thoughts.
My thoughts are with you, Bernita. So very sorry for your loss.
Bernita, I have been thinking of you lots and sending you millions of cyberhugs!
And I heart your blog, so I'm giving you an award:
http://writtenwyrdd.typepad.com/writtenwyrdd/2009/04/blushes.html
hope you are coping well, m'dear
I am visiting for the first time. And yet, I am sorry you are entering a season of loss! So sorry for the loss of your husband.
hope the spring is kind to you, m'dear friend :D
Once more, been thinking about you. I hope you and your family are pulling through the tough times, lady. More cyber hugs are coming your way, too.
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I miss you. I am glad to read Chumplet's note.
I hope you are well. Just wanted to stop in and say hi.
No words can express how sorry I am for your loss, and there is no apology sufficient for not being here to offer condolences sooner.
I remember your affection for him in early posts -- I don't remember the words, only the affection.
You are in my thoughts.
god bless
Was thinking good thoughts your way on a bright shiny morning. Hope you are well.
Hi Bernita!
I hope the lilac blossoms are bringing you cheer.
Love, Chumplet
hi Bernita--was thinking about you today. hope you're well, and have sunny plans for Memorial Day.
Oh Bernita, I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you through this difficult time.
Bernita, I'm so sorry...I just heard! God bless you my friend.
hi Bernita. time for my monthly check-in. was just thinking about you and hoping you're doing ok.
Hi Bernita, Still hoping you're managing okay and still thinking of you.
Hi, Bernita!
I've been missing you more and more every day. The internet is a different place without your presence. I can't even begin to imagine the difference in your home without your husband.
I think of you and send you my love every single day. You're one special woman.
Hugs,
Natasha
Hi Bernita,
I've been thinking of you. I miss reading your blog every day. God bless and we will be awaiting your return. ;-)
Hope you are well and recovering. Please come back soon, we miss you.
Thinking of you.
I'm terribly sorry. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Hi Bernita, Just wanted to let you know that bunches of people are still sending you love and positive energy.
Just stopping by with love and good wishes, Bernita. I miss you.
Just checking in to provide continued best wishes.
Bernita, I love and miss you! Please come back!
I am so sorry hope you are as well as can be
I am so sorry hope you are as well as can be
I miss you too!!
Dear Bernita, we miss you dreadfully. Are you okay?
Hugs,
Natasha :-)
I actually dreamed I came to this site & you were back, Bernita.
Hoping you are well, still missing you.
hi Bernita. hope you're ok. miss you. no one calls me "moonmouse" in your absence.
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Bernita, and also so sorry that it took me so long to visit your blog and find out your news. You are in my thoughts.
Here. And now.
I clicked on an archived post on another blog and saw one of your comments. I thought, "Holy cow, Bernita's back!"
But I looked at the blog post and it was from last year.
Sigh.
Miss you! Hope you are well.
I keep popping in and hoping to see that you are OK and posting again. SIGH! I hope you are well.
m sorry for the loss...Bernita
thinking of you...
Please come back, Bernita. Please?
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